May 19, 2012

South Africa Journal 8: Remembering to Close the Loop

Think about the last time you led a ministry initiative in which you had to call in favours.

Perhaps you’re a youth leader who needed to round up extra drivers for that youth ministry outing, and you phoned all those parents to bring their mini-vans to run these kids across town.

Maybe you’re a senior pastor who needed to clear the church calendar for an important church-wide event, and you met with several key staff to get them to move or cancel their previously scheduled functions.

My question for you, and the one I’ve been challenged with today, is “How consistently do you remember to close the loop?”

South Africa Township

My journey through South Africa continued today with a stop at World Vision’s Umvoti Area Development Project office. Here our group of Canadian pastors met with the Umvoti World Vision staff, along with a group of local pastors.

As part of the meeting’s agenda we showed a video which we had shot in this region in April of 2009, and which we had shown at Canada’s Leadership Summit sites later that year. In filming the piece we had visited many area homes and interviewed many families and community leaders. In showing the video to some 7000 leaders at the Canadian Summit it had raised a great awareness of the needs in this region, along with an opportunity to respond through World Vision.

After showing this seven minute clip to these Umvoti leaders, one of the pastors rose from his chair and spoke words which I immediately processed as an important leadership principle.

“Thank you for showing us this video,” he said in his native Zulu through an interpreter. “Many times people visit us, and many times they take videos of us. Then they show their videos in other countries, but we don’t know what they have said about us. We don’t know what people are being made to think about us through their videos. But you have come back to us. You have shown us the video. This honours us. And we thank you.”

The eruption of applause confirmed that he was speaking on behalf of their entire community.

His comments reminded me that these people were not merely subjects in our video. They had given of themselves to make our project a success, and to show them the finished product was just the right thing to do.

Because when you call in favours, it’s incumbent upon the leader to close the loop. It’s just a part of leadership to go back to those you asked for help, and let them know how things turned out.

Tell the parents who drove the kids what happened as a result of getting all those kids to the event.

Tell the staff how in moving their ministry function to a different night your church-wide event had impacted the entire church.

I had to come half-way around the world to be reminded of this leadership principle. But it’s one I’ll be emphasizing with greater vigour upon my return to Canada.

How consistently do you remember to “close the loop”

South Africa Journal 7: Leaders Must be “Thankers”

I’ve heard Bill Hybels talk about times when the team at Willow Creek had performed exceptionally well, and how afterwards he would become a one-man “thanking machine”.

I’ve filed that lesson away, remembering it in the form of an axiom, “Leaders must be Thankers”.

Today, God used an eight year old girl from the KwaMaphumulo area of South Africa to remind me of the power of this axiom.

World Vision sponsor child homeAs we continued our journey through South Africa along with a group of Canadian pastors, we were given the tremendous privilege of visiting our eight year old World Vision sponsor child at her home. I had visited her last year, but now with my wife Nora along, and with a year’s more relationship established through our correspondence, anticipation was running high on both sides.

Our reunion, and Nora’s first meeting with her, was everything I could have hoped for, and then some. Through hugs and tears of joy, Nora opened a bag containing simple gifts we had brought along for her, and her two sisters; pencil crayons, stickers, photos, and writing pads, which our girl accepted with Christmas morning-like joy.

But then, far too soon, we realized that we had to leave. But as we turned to go something extraordinary happened.

Our girl suddenly dashed away from us and disappeared inside her house. We simply assumed that she was either overcome with sadness at our parting, or perhaps wanted to start drawing with her new pencil crayons. Either way, we simply turned and began to walk back up the path.

But moments later we heard a small voice behind us yelling something in her native Zulu language. We turned to see our girl running to catch up to us, her face beaming, clutching items she had gathered from her home.

In her arms she was cradling a large bottle of Coca-Cola, an item so large she had to carry it like a baby. Dangling from her hands were packages of cookies.

We met her along the path, not exactly sure what she was doing. She held the pop bottle and the cookies out towards us and spoke hurriedly in Zulu. We were able to make eye contact with our interpreter, who immediately listened, understood, and explained.

“Your sponsored child wishes to say thank you for all you have done,” she said. “And she wishes to show her appreciation with this gift.”

More embraces were exchanged, as we choked back tears in accepting these gifts of thanks; a bottle of Coke. Two packages of cookies.

Obviously, my greatest take-away from this was simply humble gratitude that, as a World Vision child sponsor, I was able to be a part of an encounter as meaningful as this.

But as a leader, my bell was also rung yet again in this simple, yet important reminder of the power of a “thank you”.

Leaders must be “thankers”. And I trust that through this experience this axiom will grow and shape my own leadership.

How do you respond to the idea that a leader must be a thanker?

How do you put this into action in your leadership?

South Africa Journal 5: The Difference Between ‘Waiting’ and ‘Expecting’

Somewhere along the way there was a misunderstanding about this morning.

As we walked along the dirt path towards the large canvas tent ahead, I was hoping that this misunderstanding wouldn’t create a problem for our hosts.

South Africa Journal 5Our little band of brothers and sisters were walking together towards the gathering place of Hope of Glory Church, located in one of the sprawling slum areas of Durban, South Africa. Four pastors of some of Canada’s most significant churches, along with our World Vision hosts and a couple of us from The Leadership Centre Willow Creek Canada, were all moving towards this Sunday morning worship service with a high sense of anticipation.

But I worried about the misunderstanding.

You see, usually when pastors from North American churches visit a church in a third world setting like this there is an expectation that the visitor will preach. In this case, however, despite the considerable ‘pulpit power’ represented in our group, none of us were either prepared nor desiring to preach. We were genuinely looking forward to hearing the Word of God taught to us by our host pastor, S. D. Chili.

However, she, in turn, had expected that one of us would be preaching. Now that this misunderstanding had been ironed out Pastor Chili had busied herself preparing a message, later telling us that she felt great pressure preaching in front of these distinguished Canadian pastors.

She needn’t have worried.

For as we settled ourselves into our chairs and entered into heartfelt worship with this congregation of about 150 people, I had a clear sense that God was about to do something profound through this humble but powerful woman.

And that He did.

Pastor Chili chose as her text Romans 8: 18-19,

18I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. 19The creation waits in eager expectation for the sons of God to be revealed.

Could any of us from Canada have preached from this text? Certainly. And each of us likely has.

But what God communicated through Pastor Chili not only connected powerfully with these desperately poor people from these slums, but also challenged and encouraged each of us from Canada.

She taught us the difference between merely ‘waiting’ and ‘expecting’. When one merely ‘waits’, she explained, we tend to just mope through whatever life hands to us. But when we wait in expectation that God intends to meet us in each and every situation it completely changes our outlook.

This was a powerful truth, delivered with a conviction I doubt any of us from Canada could have quite matched.

She went on to describe a funeral she had recently conducted, in which they had buried the 7th of 8 family members. The surviving family member, though obviously in great mourning, said at the funeral that her hope was still in the Lord.

That’s waiting with expectation.

As the service ended and we filed out of the tent, I couldn’t help but think how glad I was that none of us from Canada had been called upon to preach that morning. Each of us were incredibly blessed to have sat at the feet of this woman’s teaching.

And I know that as our itinerary now takes us out to the rural areas where World Vision is at work, I trust that God will help me to further remember and apply that I am not only ‘wait’, but to ‘wait with expectation’.

South Africa Journal 3: Great Expectations

Have you ever found yourself working online, expecting that your internet connection will simply continue to keep you plugged into the world, when all of a sudden, inexplicably, you find that you’re offline?

I have, just now.

Have you ever found yourself sitting in a coffee shop, expecting that the latte you just ordered will arrive piping hot, only to have it served to you luke warm?

I have, just now.

Life is full of expectations, which are formed by our culture, our character, and our own experiences.

I’m sitting in London’s Heathrow Airport, where for the past few hours I’ve had a series of hit and miss experiences with my expectations. And while I can honestly say that none of these have been particularly inconvenient, in just a few hours I expect that my perspective will be utterly shaken.

I’m en route with a group of Canadian pastors to South Africa, where my friends at World Vision will be guiding us through the work they’re doing in some of the country’s most impoverished regions. In these communities expectations are very different. They think very little about the consistency of their internet connection, or the temperature of their coffee.

In communities ravaged by AIDS, where there is a lack of clean drinking water and where food sources are scarce, expectations are decidedly different. And I fully expect that in the coming days, as we immerse ourselves in this very different reality, that my own expectations will be turned upside down.

At least, I’m praying this is so.

And so as we board our London to Johannesburg flight I’m praying that God will use this experience to help me identify any expectations I’ve been clinging to that He would have me release.

And in doing so, I trust that my heart will be softened to what He would have for me in these coming days.

What expectations might you be clinging to that God would have you release?