3 Character Warning Lights Leaders Must Recognize

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Wouldn’t it be great if there was a “check engine” light for a leader’s character?

Those of us who are mechanically dis-inclined rely on our car’s dashboard warning lights to remind us to pay attention to a small engine problem early on, before it grows to become a big, expensive calamity.

When it comes to issues of a character, leaders also need to pay attention to the early warning signs so they can take corrective measures before things get out of hand.

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The key to maintaining your sterling leadership character is to recognize the early warning signs so you can take corrective measures.

Here are 3 of the most important character warning lights for leaders:

The “humble-brag” warning light

Long before over-the-top arrogance sets in, subtle hints can appear in the form of the humble-brag (highlighting personal accomplishments under a thinly-veiled veneer of humility). Leaders using social media must be especially careful of this; for example, “Can’t believe we’re growing at a 25% rate while so many others are struggling. #humbled”.

It’s a short walk from a humble-brag to full-blown arrogance.

The exaggeration warning light

Out-and-out lying often begins as innocuously as simple exaggeration.

In an earlier post I pointed out that leaders who succumb to the temptation to use hyperbole in their communication (“That was our best event ever!”) they run the risk of taking a credibility hit.

But a larger concern can also loom. Because when hyperbole and exaggeration appear, it can be a slippery slope to utter fabrication and deception.

The rationalization warning light.

Corruption rarely begins with a calculated plan to extort massive funds from one’s own organization.

Usually it begins as innocently as shaving a few minutes off the work day or getting a bit sloppy with one’s expense report.

The warning light appears when you begin to rationalize these indiscretions. “No one will miss a few sheets of paper” or “I work hard at other times; why shouldn’t I take off a few minutes early?”

When you start rationalizing like this you can end up disqualified from leadership.

Character loss creeps up on you, one unchecked minor indiscretion at a time.

But if you learn to recognize the warning lights you can keep the character of your leadership right on track.

 

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Scott Cochrane

Vice President- International, Willow Creek Association. Love Jesus, Nora, Adam & Robin, Amy, Dave & Willow and John, Fiona & Will. Lifelong learner.

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